One of the most important pieces of advice I've ever gotten from a mentor comes from Steven R. Covey in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective people. It would have been worth reading the entire book to learn this one principle (though I did learn a lot more from it).
He draws a square like this:

The way that I've applied this advice is by making a list of things that are important but not urgent and putting it in a place where I'll see it over and over. In my case it's in the front of a notebook I use for journaling and writing down ideas. I review the list every few days and rewrite it entirely ever few months to make sure it's still aligned with my current goals. It has proven invaluable to me.
By focusing specifically on these tasks and making an extra effort to accomplish them, I feel I've made more progress over the last year than I made over the last several years previous.
Priam, King of Troy, begging for Hector's body:
"'Honor the gods, Achilles; pity him.
Think of your father; I'm more pitiful;
I've suffered what no other mortal has,
I've kissed the hand of one who killed my children.'
He spoke, and stirred Achilles' grief to tears;
He gently pushed the old man's hand away.
They both remembered; Priam wept for Hector,
Sitting crouched before Achilles' feet.
Achilles mourned his father, then again
Patroculs, and their mourning stirred the house."
The Iliad
Book 24 Lines 503-513
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